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How to move on, without closure
Closure means different things to different people; acceptance, apology, explanation, restitution, reconciliation, a gift, or a simple recall of something that was said. Sometimes it is a combination of at least two of these. In a broad sense, closure is an action or interaction that suffices as...
As Thirty draws near
I clock 30 in exactly two weeks, yeah, three whole decades. It's dreamy in a sense, to think that I have been around for quite a while too, and now I am walking into what humans call 'mid-life'. While I am particularly pleased with how the months...
A Bruised Reed
Yaaay! It's Saturday, again. For breakfast I am making local (jollof) rice; the one with palm oil, locust beans, dry fish and diced pepper. Not quite bougie, but I know you want it.
Anyways, I hope you had a rewarding week, and are enjoying some quality 'alone' or...
Hello, August
Dear friends, I am sorry I have been MIA here.
Life hasn't been a tale of woes; on the contrary, it has been blissful and consistently progressive. Yet, holding on in faith and pulling through the highs and lows of each day required a pause.
Ernest Hemingway says "A...
Is Consistency Overrated?
When folks use this word, they usually are attempting to speak about steady continuity. The quality of persistence; keeping at it even after the initial excitement, ease, encouragement, or approval wanes. As such, consistency is indeed an admirable quality in any positive context.
Why then are we surrounded...